In every love story, trust is always the most important thing. And undoubtedly, once trust is betrayed, the overwhelming emotions that arise are one of the most visible consequences for any young man. This is also the story of the guy below, who just shared his pain with the online community, while not forgetting to shout that he will “never trust anyone again.” Unfortunately, there was very little empathy, while criticism and mockery appeared relatively frequently.
According to him, the biggest reason he faced backlash from the online community was that his relationship originated from chatting and “online dating”. Meeting through social media, the young man fell head over heels when he felt he had found a “soulmate online”, despite knowing that everything on the Internet is not reliable. However, he still hoped for a miracle, believing that being good would lead to a happy ending. Even when his girlfriend sent him somewhat blurry, unclear selfies, he was still very happy to feel that he had made acquaintance with a beauty.
According to what the young man recounted, when looking at the photos, he only saw a beautiful girl with white skin and a demeanor that matched his taste. After 8 months of harmonious chatting, both decided to meet to formalize their relationship. But perhaps in life, the unexpected is the hardest lesson to learn. In response to his hope and excitement, he was met with the image of a “middle-aged lady” sitting across the table, with dark skin, slanted eyes, and a less-than-attractive face.
Disappointed, furious, and sorrowful, yet with all his restraint, the young man still tried to finish his meal before leaving, even neglecting to say goodbye or take his girlfriend home as a matter of courtesy. Bringing his tale to the internet, he found little sympathy, receiving harsh comments, with many even snickering at his concluding remark, “I no longer trust anyone in this life.”
“Getting involved with unreliable people only leads to swearing not to trust anyone anymore”
“Online dating is like gambling, who really wins?”
“The more hope you have, the more despair you will feel.”