Dating secretly with a wealthy man, a 25-year-old girl nearly reached an agreement
The service of secret dating is no longer a strange concept. There, by openly exchanging their views and marriage expectations, many singles have found their partners. However, there are also many secret dates that attract attention and spark lively discussions due to the shocking demands of the women involved.
Most recently, a girl named Trịnh, 25 years old, who works in a theater, became the center of attention. She has a stable job, earning about 5,000 yuan (18 million VND) per month. With the help of a matchmaker, Ms. Trịnh and a man named Lý began their date. There, she clearly stated her requirements for her partner.
As soon as she sat down, Ms. Trịnh directly stated her criteria for choosing a partner: “If we get married, the gift must be 500,000 yuan (nearly 2 billion VND), the car must be a BMW 5 Series (around 1.8 – 2.7 billion VND), and the house must be at least 180 square meters, registered in my name on the land use certificate.” Such clear and high material demands immediately made the entire dating atmosphere feel forced.
The counterpart in the date was actually a second-generation rich kid from a well-off family. His family’s wealth is estimated to be tens of millions of yuan, and moreover, he is the only son in the family, meaning he will inherit a significant fortune in the future. When Mr. Lý heard Ms. Trịnh’s demands, he didn’t seem very surprised. After all, with his financial strength, fulfilling these material conditions wouldn’t be difficult. He calmly replied: “The 500,000 yuan betrothal gift is not a big issue; when the time comes, I will directly give you 2 million yuan (7.3 billion VND).” Upon hearing this, the girl couldn’t help but feel delighted, her expression brightening.
But as the conversation deepened, conflicts began to emerge.
The man inquired about Ms. Trịnh’s job and income. When he learned that she only earned 5,000 yuan a month, he couldn’t help but wonder: “Your conditions are not special at all, why do you demand such a high betrothal gift?”
The other person also did not hesitate to frankly state that as the only daughter in her family, with aging parents, she hoped to use this luxurious wedding gift to ensure their old age. Mr. Lý responded: “Your monthly salary is even less than my food expenses. If later you give birth at home, the profits will certainly be much greater than if you worked outside.” At the same time, he proposed a “reward plan” that left people speechless: If she gives birth to a girl after marriage, he will reward her 400,000 yuan; if she gives birth to a boy, he will reward her 800,000 yuan. Upon hearing this, the girl felt as though she was being used as a tool for reproduction and was very unhappy. Meanwhile, Mr. Lý believed that his financial capability was sufficient to cover such conditions, and that this was also a perfect plan for the future of the family.
The conflict escalated further when discussing the house. Ms. Trịnh insisted that the house, to secure her future life, not only had to be large but also registered in her name. Mr. Lý thought that although he had a large family and many properties, it was difficult for him to accept this. He couldn’t make decisions solely based on Ms. Trịnh’s demands.
The date ended in failure. As she left, Ms. Trịnh still held great hope for her ideal partner in the future. She firmly believed that her demands were not unreasonable but rather a guarantee for her future life. Meanwhile, Mr. Lý shook his head and sighed, feeling that modern dating seemed to increasingly resemble a transactional deal, with genuine and pure affection becoming harder to find.
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