The Boyfriend Witnesses a Shocking Scene After More Than a Year of Dating
Born in 1996, the boyfriend named A has been dating his girlfriend who was born in 2000 for over a year. He mentioned that considering their appearances, both are decent and suitable for each other. Every time they went out on a date, the girl dressed simply and neatly, but with her own style. This impression left him “stunned” when he witnessed the extremely messy state of her room.
The boyfriend shared that when they first met, every time they went out, his girlfriend often arranged to meet at the entrance of the alley. It was only after more than a year of dating that he was allowed into her room. The small, messy, and smelly room shocked him. At that time, the girl explained that she was too busy with work to have time to clean.
However, he asserted that this way of living was not acceptable. Clearly, his girlfriend had days off, but every time he visited, he found the same situation. After actively cleaning up for his girlfriend, he offered suggestions, but she only responded vaguely. At one point, after cleaning up and getting frustrated, he raised his voice at her, only to be “retaliated” with the comment that he was being too particular.
Disillusioned with His Beautiful but Messy Girlfriend
Feeling disillusioned with his beautiful but untidy girlfriend, the boyfriend confided: “We’ve been together for nearly a year and a half, but I feel helpless about my girlfriend’s messy lifestyle. On one hand, I want to end it, but on the other hand, I still care. But when I think about the possibility of us getting married, I feel like I’d end up as a servant helping out.
I’m nearly 30 years old, and I want a serious relationship that leads to marriage, to share and nurture each other. But when I think about the prospect of marriage and having to deal with trash when I come home from work in the evening, I see a very bleak picture of my future with her.”
In the comments, people were not surprised by the story. In fact, many posts have exposed the messy and filthy lives of internet celebrities that have drawn attention. Moreover, most viewers believe that the guy should not continue this relationship, as a lifestyle that has become ingrained is hard to change. If he cannot tolerate it happily, prolonging the relationship will be exhausting for both.
Responding to people’s opinions, the male lead expressed: “Thank you everyone, I have read most of the comments. I know it’s very difficult, but I still want to talk more with my girlfriend about this issue. I am the type who values feelings, so I want to give each other a chance to change. If we cannot change anymore, then I will make decisions later. Thank you all, and I wish everyone a happy new day.”
