Love is inherently not an easy affair, and finding a truly compatible partner to spend a lifetime with is even harder. Recently, a touching story of a young man who suffered business losses during the pandemic circulated in a large community group on Facebook. He decided to break up with his girlfriend, not wanting her to share in his suffering. But instead of parting ways, the girl encouraged him with a message: “Come home, what are you afraid of?” so they could talk “like two guys.”
At his lowest point, reading his girlfriend’s message brought tears to his eyes. “Debt is just debt, what is there to fear? The only thing to fear is those who waste and destroy without the means to repay. Experiencing business loss and failure is normal. Money may be lost, but the work is still there; it’s time to lean on each other to rise again, to start over, and everything will pass,” the girl encouraged her boyfriend.
The girl insisted on not breaking up because she also earns money and wouldn’t let them both starve. Her advice to her boyfriend, even after a business failure, to come home and talk like “two buddies” touched many people.
Unlike boys, girls have a much higher need for communication. This becomes even more evident in love. When in love, girls desire attention and empathy from their partners. The girl’s wish to share what happened during the day and her desire for her boyfriend to meet her emotional needs is perfectly normal. After being shared on social media, the story quickly attracted a lot of interaction from the online community. Most comments suggested that the young man is very lucky to have a “dream girlfriend” and advised him to hold onto her tightly.
Some opinions from netizens:
“Letting go would be a regret for the rest of your life. You won’t find another person who is as sincere as her.”
“If you have a girlfriend like that, hold on tight, my friend; once she’s gone, you won’t find another person like her no matter how hard you look.”
