The first date is extremely important. The success or failure of a relationship, whether it can progress or not, sometimes depends on these initial dates.
It is not uncommon for girls to bring a few friends along to “drain their boyfriend’s wallet” during a date. In such cases, finding a quick solution without offending anyone is no easy task.
Recently, a netizen shared their experience of being “tricked” when inviting a girlfriend to dinner, the story goes as follows:
“I just did something extremely daring and lively, and I don’t know if it was right or wrong, but I feel satisfied and very relieved.
It all started when I met a student who is quite fancy, talking about how she has traveled to the West and dined in restaurants costing millions.
Despite being fancy, she decided to go for a casual meal with me at a small hot pot restaurant near her place. Everything would have been fine if she hadn’t invited three or four of her close friends along to eat hot pot with us.
At first, her friends were polite, saying they wouldn’t eat and just wanted to sit and chat. But ten minutes later, they ordered a string of expensive seafood dishes.
So, I had to pretend to have a stomachache and sneak out, leaving the owner 300,000 VND as my share and leaving without a word.
Now that I’m home and checking my phone, I see that the fancy girl is in a tough spot because she has no money and neither do her friends. I decided to just ignore it, take a shower, and get ready for bed. Do you think my response was tactful?”
This post received a variety of comments after it was shared. From the start, it was clear that the girl was wrong to bring her friends to a date with someone she met online. Not only did she bring her friends, but they also ordered many expensive dishes without consulting the person who invited them.
This is not just a mistake made by this girl; there have been numerous stories like this. There was a girl who, when invited on a date, brought a friend along to eat and make the other person “go broke.”
Clearly, the girl did not respect her date by making such a unilateral decision. However, the guy’s behavior was also not very civilized. No matter what happened, he should have stayed to resolve the meal and then decided on a breakup if necessary; who runs away so quickly like that?
This also serves as a lesson for those girls who bring friends along on a date to “get treated.” Make sure that the other person is serious about the girl and has invited you first, otherwise, you might end up in an awkward situation like in this story.