Romantic relationships are often fraught with misunderstandings and arguments. This is especially true when feelings are one-sided, leading to many awkward situations. Take, for instance, the recent story of a young girl who, because her boyfriend steadfastly refused to meet her, decided to confront him at his home. Even during the midday break in a residential area, she knocked on his door and shouted loudly, disturbing the neighbors and drawing attention.
Seeing this, a man stepped forward. From being shocked and concerned, he shifted to gently advising her. The video capturing this calm dialogue with the parent figure has been widely shared on online forums. In it, the girl continuously justified her actions, claiming it was all because the young man was avoiding her, expressing her frustration: “But it’s not my fault. I’ve been waiting here for hours.”
The middle-aged man patiently advised her:
“You are a girl, a woman, and you must have your own dignity. A man who loves you will seek you out; if he no longer loves you, then you should find someone else. Why should you chase after someone who makes you suffer?
Because he no longer wants to meet you. It is wrong for you to come here knocking on doors. When a man loves you, he will naturally come to you; if he has no feelings for you, then no amount of chasing will solve anything—it will only make you suffer. There are plenty of men out there; why should you endure this?
Everyone will see you and judge you as a girl of low value. Your parents did not teach you, you lack education, which is why you behave this way… If he doesn’t want to meet you now, then wait for another time. You can text or call him, why come here and disturb the peace? You need to stay calm; you are the one making yourself suffer.”
Despite this, the girl remained stubborn, complaining, blaming, and insisting that the boy come out to talk, leaving many witnesses exasperated, while others sighed in defeat.
Shortly after the clip was shared, it quickly caught the attention of the online community. Alongside the advice given to the girl, many comments praised the patient handling of the situation by the middle-aged man.