After the divorce, Xemesis (Hieu Nghiem, born in 1989) is rumored to be dating hot girl Khánh Hòa Bò Chảnh (Nguyễn Thị Ý Nhi, born in 1998). The couple has not officially confirmed their relationship but has dropped many hints about dating, such as secretly traveling to luxurious resorts, publicly interacting on social media, and filming videos together,…
After some time, in the early morning of February 17, Bò Chảnh unexpectedly messaged in the chat channel with fans, announcing the end of her current relationship.
According to Bò Chảnh, she “is hurt by being lied to”. The hot girl from Khánh Hòa added that she has always given her all, and when the other party has issues, she often chooses to make excuses for them because she believes they did not intend to hurt her. “When someone does something wrong to me, instead of speaking up so they don’t repeat it, I pretend to be understanding and let it go because I want to be a good girl,” Bò Chảnh wrote.
Bò Chảnh also mentioned that she is fortunate to have good friends who have helped her bravely face her pain, accept that the nature of the other party cannot change, and express gratitude for the ended relationship.
The original sharing from Bò Chảnh:
“At this hour, I still can’t sleep because I am hurt by being lied to. At first, I would be very angry, then I would stop communicating and turn inward. In all my relationships, whenever I give my all, when they have issues, I choose to make excuses because I believe they did not mean it. Psychological trauma from childhood has greatly affected my personality as I grew up. When someone does something wrong to me, instead of speaking up to prevent them from repeating it, I pretend to be understanding and let it go because I want to be a good girl.”
“That is a very detrimental way to handle all problems in life. Thanks to good friends who have taught me to be strong and face the truth, but for those who do not deserve it, I will have to learn to let go and accept that I once cared for them a lot, and that is just how they are, I cannot change them. Only by doing so can I gradually lessen my pain and hurt instead of remaining angry. I also have to be grateful for everything that has happened to my path of fate and for it to end.”
“How I am will attract similar people. My life is getting better and I am meeting good people; the unsuitable ones have been pushed away by the universe. I must be happy.”
“And finally, the lesson I want to share with you all is to live honestly and kindly. When hurt, be brave to face it. Don’t avoid it, let the pain accumulate until it bleeds; at that point, the other party will never understand and will not change in time, be it parents, friends, siblings, or lovers.”
“There is a beautiful saying: some things, when silence is chosen at that moment, should never be spoken of for a lifetime. I wish us all to be as happy as children, and that our conversations become less guarded, be kind, and start with ourselves.”
Although Bò Chảnh’s entire message does not mention Xemesis, netizens quickly speculated that she and the male streamer were involved. This is because the couple was believed to have a special relationship in recent times.
As for Xemesis, he is also rumored to have a new girlfriend but quickly denied the information.
In a post on February 12, Xemesis shared a photo with a girl during a pickleball tournament. In the comments, a netizen bluntly asked: “Is that your girlfriend, Hieu?” and the richest streamer in Vietnam replied: “Teammate for the tournament.”
For Bò Chảnh, the last time the couple was seen together was in a review clip of Xemesis’s snail restaurant on January 27. In the clip, the couple had quite comfortable and fun interactions.
Bò Chảnh and Xemesis’s dating rumors started to circulate in late August 2024 when they were spotted together at the airport. The two were reported to have acted intimately beyond friendship there.
In mid-September 2024, Xemesis and Bò Chảnh took a trip to Nha Trang together. They both posted pictures of fishing and checked in at a luxurious resort. Although the photos were posted at different times and didn’t feature them together, anyone looking at them could tell the couple was dating.
After that, neither confirmed nor denied their relationship, but they were still considered to have a special connection.